While many drugs, such as Viagra and Cialis, are available to mask the symptoms of erectile dysfunction, they do not deal with the underlying causes of ED. We have found that psychological ED has at least 3 underlying roots and we are offering a short series explaining each of the roots and how to deal with them.
Picking up women can be a real challenge, and men are trying to figure out what to say – as if finding the right topic will be like a magic pill helping both you and she relax. However, studies have shown that it matters very little what you say, just initiating a talk puts you way above the pack.
We recently received a great question from Nick, who was interested in issues around the smells and tastes that come…
In our coaching, we run into many men who say that they feel that they have internalized the virgin/whore dichotomy, that they can imagine having wild, fantasy-filled, and naughty sex with just about anyone other than the woman with whom they are in love. We want you to know that that dichotomy is inside of you, and it comes from shame.
The core of self-connection for men is confidence. Many men have dealt with rejection or have been unsure about how to connect to women in whom they are truly interested. They give themselves negative messages that hinder their confidence and their willingness to take risks that will move them towards arousing and fulfilling connections.