Keeping Sex in Long Term Relationships Alive

Expand Your Erotic RepertoireMany couples we see have a good relationship foundation, and even attraction to and desire for one another. But they have noticed that sex has become routine. So – how do you keep sex in long term relationships alive and interesting?

We have this mistaken belief in our society that great sex is just supposed to happen. However, in long-term relationships or relationships where there wasn’t a strong sexual foundation to begin with, couples need to consciously invest time, creativity, and energy into keeping their sex life engaging and fun.

In our sex and relationship coaching sessions, we help couples enhance and expand their sexual repertoire in order to have ongoing desire. We help you dive into the realms of sensation, fantasy, and passionate connection to create an exciting and multi-faceted sexual relationship between you and your partner.

In sex therapy and relationship coaching sessions, we help you identify your individual wants and learn how to share them in a way that invites your partner to actively engage with and support who each of you really are and what you really want. When you make this room, you can experience the honeymoon feeling over and over again in long-term relationships. Find out more about all the different ways you can expand in our article about The Three Sexual Realms.

 

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