Expand Your Erotic Repertoire
Many couples we see have a good relationship foundation and attraction and desire for one another but have noticed that sex has become routine. We have this mistaken belief in our society that great sex is just supposed to happen, however, in long-term relationships or relationships where there wasn’t a strong sexual foundation to begin with, couples need to consciously invest time, creativity, and energy into keeping their sex life alive and interesting. In our sex and relationship coaching sessions, we help couples enhance and expand their sexual repertoire in order to have ongoing desire. We help you dive into the realms of sensation, fantasy, and passionate connection to create an exciting and multi-faceted sexual relationship between you and your partner.
In sex therapy and relationship coaching sessions, we help you identify your individual wants and learn how to share them in a way that invites your partner to actively engage with and support who each of you really are and what you really want. When you make this room, you can experience the honeymoon feeling over and over again in long-term relationships. Find out more about all the different ways you can expand in our article about The Three Sexual Realms.
- Discover your Hottest Sexual Movie
You can stop searching Netflix, because your hottest sexual movie is still in the making. Nearly everyone walks through the world with one or more sexual “movies” circulating in their imagination. These include images and ideas of how they want sex to look, what feelings they want to have,
Common wisdom tells us that relationships require compromise. For the most part we disagree. We see most of the compromises people make in relationship as more of a slippery slope to losing who you really are then the necessary step to a lasting relationship.
It is one thing to learn
- Part 3 – Relationships are about Repair not Perfection
Relationship Repair – Step #3
Stop Making Yourself The Bad Guy/Gal (and/or trying to defend your reputation). Usually when we hear our partner is distressed about something we did, we feel bad about ourselves and disconnect or immediately try to solve the problem or at least defend our reputation. It
- Attraction: The Reasons You Choose Your Partner May Surprise You
While it is true that part of attraction is physical, much of it has a lot more to do with familiarity (and often physical attraction is also based on particular kinds of familiarity). It is no coincidence that the root word of “familiarity” is “family”: When you choose a
- Making time for a sex date
Sometimes when we suggest that people make a sex date with themselves or their sweethearts, they say, “but that sounds forced, shouldn’t it just be spontaneous?” That’s what they say until they actually try it. Once they try they say, “I can’t believe
- How Understanding the Difference Between Desires and Fantasies Can Save Your Sex life
When we work with couples, we always encourage them to have a Hottest Sexual Movie conversation, but not until we have given them the proper tools and understandings so they can truly share their deepest desires. In this series we have taken you through The Hottest Sexual
- Relationship Success – What Really Counts
Sometimes the Onion – through parody and humor – brings up topics that most news outlets are afraid to touch.
We love this article because it makes a very good point – contrary to popular belief a long relationship does not necessarily equal a good relationship and a short
- You Gotta Have Some Low G Rendezvous
“We are seriously out of practice,” Callie said after plopping down next to her boyfriend Holden. It was a bit of an unusual couple for us since neither of them seemed angry or even that worried about the fact that they hadn’t had sex for the past 2 years.