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Making Love Real

Making Love Real

The Intelligent Couple’s Guide to Lasting Intimacy and Passion

Making Love Real will help you take both your sex life and relationship to the next level. This guide offers a comprehensive view of emotional and sexual relationship dynamics as well as practical tools for lasting transformation. Making Love Real goes beyond hot tips and tricks to help you address your foundational human needs so that you can create a deeply trusting, passionate and sustainable relationship.

Everything You Need to Know in One Straightforward Guide:

  • Create the passionate, intimate connection you’ve been longing for
  • Learn how to stop having the same fights over and over again
  • Let go of harmful beliefs that block your ability to have long-term relationships
  • Practice increasing your relationship highs and using the lows to deepen trust and intimacy
  • Have a real conversation about your Hottest Sexual Movie including what turns each of you on physically, emotionally and psychologically
  • Find the power and satisfaction of connection that comes from sharing your deepest desires

Give this book as a gift of love to your partner, your friends and any other loved ones (including yourself)! Available on Amazon.

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