“For the first time I have been away on travel in the four and a half years I have known my husband, we talked for about an hour and he said, this is the FIRST time I have talked with you on the phone and I did not feel like ending the call! This has always been an issue for us, I feel I am talking and he does not want to connect, but I realized I talk about the to do list (what he is or is not getting done back home), he feels criticized, wants to get off the phone, I feel rejected, you get the picture! I realized I was using the to do list as a strategy to connect, not very seductive!”
There is so much love and intimacy available in the world – and we want you to have it all! In our relationship coaching practice we’ve tackled the most challenging issues – and we’re here to tell you that it’s all within your grasp.
As women, we are given such negative messages about relationships. You’re told that you are not valued if you are not in a relationship. Or that this union is supposed to make you happy all the time. The messages about sex are even worse. You’re told it is not for you, or that it is dangerous or unimportant. It’s no wonder that women often feel lost or discouraged about navigating dating, sex and relationships.
We’re here to help you! We know it is possible to overcome this negative messaging, have an empowered life full of deeply fulfilling relationships, and sexual experiences that can touch your deepest needs.
In our relationship coaching sessions, we offer ourselves to you as mentors – women who have walked the long and winding path of owning our lives and our sexuality, of being true to who we are and building lasting loving and passionate relationships. We have made a lifetime study, both academic and personal, about the way relationships and sexuality work. We know you can have all you want out of sex and relationships and we will show you how.
Getting in touch with your desires, asking for what you want, and finding out what’s in it for you can help you get what you want in every aspect of your life – from career to family to personal growth. No matter if you’re navigating the world of dating or are currently in a relationship: we can teach you to make that special connection so much more fulfilling.
Keeping the Relationship Alive
Through our relationship coaching work with thousands of men, we know that men also want to have a fulfilling and engaged relationship. We want you to know the secrets of what keeps relationships alive and keeps couples fully engaged and connected. We know men want to have women in their lives who are clear about their needs, communicate in a loving way, and who want to connect with them sexually from a place of true enjoyment and ownership of their sexuality. We want to help you find the joy, freedom and sexiness that comes from being vulnerable, open, receptive and deeply engaged with yourself and your partner so that you can continue to grow and love each other.
San Rafael, CA
In our Relationship Coaching sessions you will:
- Reconnect with your feelings of confidence, connection and love
- Get in touch with what you want in all areas of your life
- Learn to communicate effectively so your partner will listen and feel generous
- Move beyond low desire and find out what’s in sex for you
- Learn to create the relationship you want
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- F#ck You, Low Libido – Introduction
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- The Top 3 Mistakes Women Make In Dating and Relationship – Making Sex For Him
Our third of three posts outlining common issues that women face in dating and the top three mistakes we may make when facing these issues.
Mistake #3 – Making Sex for Him Instead of for You
Last but most definitely not least, women often experience the intensity and passion of the
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- What if I Don’t Want to Have Sex – A Question From A Reader
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Hi, I was going through your blog. I have a peculiar issue, maybe. I am 31, a mother of 2, and my husband is 34. He is very interested in sex — anywhere, anytime, — but me, I don’t know
- F#ck You, Low Libido – Part 2
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In this second of five posts, we’ll look at what really
- The Top 3 Mistakes Women Make In Dating and Relationships – Communication
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Mistake #2 – From No Communication to Unkind Communication
The idea that Mr. Right will just know