Relationship Therapy and Coaching
As sex and relationship therapists, we help people have it all - open, communicative and balanced relationships in combination with passionate, fulfilling sexual connections. So often we see women settling and shutting down or men going through their "mid-life crises," because there is no room in the relationship for growth, change and an ongoing exploration of the mysteries of sex and love.
There's been an immense shift from him since our time with you. He is loving me by going with my rhythms and I'm in heaven. Both in bed and out of bed, he's gotten much more deeply grounded in himself and simply dropped the grabbing behavior/attitude. He's employing space and subtlety with a great deal of power and sensitivity! I'm happy inside and out. And his penetration to my G-spot continues to be ever more intense, fantastic, expansive. I had no idea such lusciousness could be the normal flow between a man and a woman. I'm utterly falling in love with him. And, of course, he is joyous and fully magnetized to me. It feels great.
Oh, you have brought much, much blessing into our lives!
- Coaching Clients, Palo Alto, CA
Before we met you we were two people in love, but we didn't realize to what extent and depth we could take our connection.
- Coaching Clients, San Carlos, CA
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In our practice we see couples come in who are deeply entrenched in their Relationship Vortex: where they are constantly, but unconsciously, stepping on each others' deepest wounds. We help them resolve the vortex so they can have a strong relationship foundation. In addition, we work with couples who have different desires, who are experiencing sexless marriages, or who want to find new and exciting ways to enhance their sex lives. You can start your journey now!
Differing Desires
Oftentimes, when two people first make a commitment to each other, they are in the midst of the honeymoon period, where both people feel that the other wants everything they want and has everything they need. As they learn more about each other, they find that there are differences in desires, both inside and outside of the bedroom. These can be as simple as what kind of movies they want to watch and as complex as one partner wanting monogamy and the other wanting an open relationship. Whether they are simple or complex, if unaddressed, they can have very dire consequences for the relationship. With a focus on acceptance, we help couples negotiate through these differing desires so that each partner's desires and the underlying emotional reasons for them can be heard and fully received. You can begin to create an agreement that works for both of you and the relationship right now.Sexless (or low-sex) Marriages or Relationships
In long-term relationships, sex can end up on the back burner, behind work, children and the daily chores of living so that a couple ends up having very little sex. In some relationships, couples stop having sex altogether. Unless both partners are completely happy with this arrangement, sexless or low-sex arrangements can lead to deep resentment and distance, cheating, or break-ups and divorce. While good communication or therapy can often help resolve relationship issues, these are usually not enough to get couples to feel desire for one another again or to come up with creative solutions to their sexless relationship. Our experiential methods help couples practice the tools that are most important to passion and desire right there in session, creating the greatest likelihood for change. And we help you understand that good sex requires more than just good communication - it requires creativity, bravery and playfulness to create a relationship where seduction, passion and desire can grow and thrive. Start this passionate journey!Enhancement
Many couples we see have a good relationship foundation and attraction and desire for one another but have noticed that sex has become somewhat routine. In our coaching, we help couples enhance and expand their sexual repertoire in order to have ongoing desire. We help you dive into the realms of sensation, fantasy, and passionate connection to create an exciting and multi-faceted sexual relationship between you and your partner. We help you identify your individual wants and learn how to share them in a way that invites your partner to actively engage with and support who each of you really are and what you really want. When you make this room, you can experience the honeymoon feeling over and over again in long-term relationships.Our experiential and body-based sex and relationship therapy and coaching help couples relate in a way that increases intimacy, communication, desire and pleasure. When it comes to the relationship vortex, we help you see the forest AND the trees, so you can experience the growth and healing that a relationship has the potential to provide. We help you move through the ups and downs of relationships while staying loving, engaged and connected. If you are both committed and learn to use all of your resources, you would be amazed at what is possible!
What to do now: start your shared journey now
- Schedule your 1st session or Passionate Vacation
- Read Cockfidence together
- Women - take the women's workshop
- Men - take the men's workshop
