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Recommended Books

The Top 2 Books we recommend to anyone wanting to more deeply understand themselves as a sexual person and sex in couplehood are The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin and Mating in Captivity by Ester Perel (see reviews below). If you read nothing else, read these!

Books about Female Sexuality


Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot
By Deborah Sundahl
Of all of the books out there on Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot we feel that this is the most comprehensive and detailed. It not only covers practical topics such as anatomy and technique, it also covers emotional aspects and the benefits that can be gained by getting in touch with your G-Spot.

Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts
By Regena Thomashauer
As pleasure activists, this is one of our favorite books. Mama Gena reminds all women to get back to their deepest desires, to have fun and play with life again, both for their own satisfaction and because nothing is hotter than a woman who loves pleasure.

Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
By Betty Dodson
Betty Dodson, the godmother of masturbation, was one of the first writers to ever take on this truly taboo topic with such joyful and enthusiastic verve. In Sex for One, she talks about her women’s masturbation circles and all of the power and well-being that can come from it. She teaches techniques on how to become orgasmic through clitoral stimulation and we have incorporated many of her teachings into our coaching practice.

Our Bodies, Ourselves
By the Boston Women’s Health Book Collective
This feminist treatise on women’s bodies and sexuality is a must for any woman who wants to truly know and love her body. This encyclopedia-like book covers everything from puberty to childbirth, from sexual trauma to sexual healing. We love it!



Books for Men, Women, and Couples


The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment
By Jack Morin
Jack Morin presents a pleasure-focused, non-judgmental approach to understanding our deepest turn-ons and fantasies. Morin helps us all to uncover and understand our “core erotic theme”, one of the surest pathways we have found to deeply knowing exactly what you are looking for from sex and intimacy, from there you can learn how to communicate about it and share it with a partner or partners.

The New Male Sexuality: The Truth About Men, Sex and Pleasure
By Bernie Zilbergeld
Zilbergeld’s book offers a fresh look at men’s sexuality, helping men understand their sexuality and relationships. He includes exercises that you can do alone and others that require a partner.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
By Esther Perel
Perel talks about the inherent tension in long-term relationships between domesticity and passion. While commitment, trust, closeness and excellent communication are the foundations of sharing a life, home, and children with another, passion needs distance, barriers, a synapse over which to jump in order for relationships to stay hot and exciting.

The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know
By Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglass Abrams and Rachel Carlton Abrams, M.D.
The Multi-Orgasmic Couple summarizes and synthesizes much of the information in the Multi-Orgasmic Man and Multi-Orgasmic Woman. While the focus on Eastern spiritual teachings may make this less accessible to the general reader, the information contained in it may be helpful to men and women who want to learn the art of multi-orgasm.

Guide to Getting It On,
By Paul Joannides
If you are looking for a fun, hip, and detailed guide to pleasure for men, women and couples, look no further. The Guide to Getting it On has it all. It is a must-have for every household who is interested in keeping their sex life hot.

Anal Pleasure & Health: A Guide for Men and Women
By Jack Morin
A list of resources would never be complete with out a book on the joys of anal pleasure. The anus has long been a source of shame, but has so much potential as a place of pleasure and relaxation. Morin takes a straightforward and thorough look at this important topic.



Books about Healing


When Food Is Food and Love Is Love: A Step-by-Step Spiritual Program to Break Free from Emotional Eating
By Geneen Roth
This audiobook by Geneen Roth directly confronts the ways that we use food to soothe ourselves emotionally and gives fantastic guidance about how to feel the underlying emotions instead of running away from them – a great approach to all of the addictive behaviors one might have from drinking to checking your email 100 times a day.

Unwinding the Belly: Healing with Gentle Touch
By Alison Post (with Stephen Cavaliere)
This book reminds us that "All healing is self-healing". Post offers a simple, self-directed way of approaching the healing our bellies which includes breath and hands-on practices. It is a wonderful guide to self-health, and holds many similarities to the ways that we approach healing and expansion around sexuality.





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