Exposed

I (Celeste) recently became a Brand Ambassador for Good Vibes. “What is that?” you ask. It means that once a month, GV sends me a brand new toy and I have the backbreaking task of reviewing it. I know, my life sucks, right? This month, it was a Blue G-Twist from Good Vibrations, which appears to come in 5 other delectable colors as well. Appearance-wise it is only attractive if you have a particular affinity for the Caterpillar from Alice in Wonderland, though the G-Twist is six inches and, if memory serves, the Caterpillar was “exactly 3 inches tall”. At first I was skeptical since I have always preferred finger-thrusting across my g-spot which generally likes lots of pressure. Amazingly, however, since my G-spot continues to get more and more sensitive (I used to be a clit girl but now so many of my orgasms are combination orgasms originating in my G-spot), using a vibrator for my G-spot was very pleasurable, and, with some clitoral stimulation at the same time, I had some wonderful orgasms. One of the more lovely surprises my new little blue friend offered was when I rotated it inside my pussy so that the curved end was pointed down towards my asshole. This in combination with some clitoral stimulation was definitely orgasmic. I tried the vibration on my cervix, but it is a little wide at the base to put that far in and the vibration on my cervix was a bit too much. Of course, having been a clit girl for so long, I had to try it on my clit. Because of the soft, thick material that is used, it is a pretty light vibration. If you are used to the Magic Wand like I am it might not be strong enough, though I managed to get it to do the trick. The only real problems I had with it was that the dial controlling the speed is round so, unless you are paying close attention you can go right passed the high speed and back down to low again. Overall, I’d say if you are already a G-spot girl or you like or want to experiment with some anal vibration, this would be a great toy for you. If you aren’t a G-spot girl yet, it’s never too late! Give us a call and we’ll help you locate and learn how to develop her!

In our coaching, we run into many men who say that they feel that they have internalized the virgin/whore dichotomy, that they can imagine having wild, fantasy-filled, and naughty sex with just about anyone other than the woman with whom they are in love. We want you to know that that dichotomy is inside of you, and it comes from shame. All those things that you can imagine doing with a mistress, a porn star or a prostitute (and not your wife or or girlfriend) is a separation between what you feel are your acceptable sexual desires and your unacceptable sexual desires. However, in order to maintain a long-term, sexually hot and passionate relationship with a woman who you love and care about, you will need to keep all of the things you find most sexually exciting about sex involved in that relationship. She will need to be your virgin and your whore, your goddess and your slut. Don’t try to blame it on her and say that she is not going to be up for anything, especially if you’ve never even tried to broach the subject. And if you have asked, and she said she isn’t, then she’s got some shame too. Come on in, we’ll help you create a lifetime of exciting, fantastic sex!